Another year an same as always never does get any easier wow your boy is 15 now and a young man you would be so proud an he definitely followed in your footsteps the loveable gentle soft rogue you was but wasn’t actually just liked the image! Never forgotten hope your celebrating up their xxx

Hey Neil, Happy 37th Birthday Bro. Yet again bloody floers for your birthday, we should be out on the town. I could laugh at you as you don't drink to much before....well let's say you get merry haha. I will be thinking about you all day, but that's nothing new. Miss and love you loads, Lynn x x x x

Will always miss your smiling face....

Hi Neil it is 5 years today since you was takin from us and it feels like yesterday love and miss you MUM & DAD

Hey Bro, long time since I have visited here, not to say I don't think about you every day as I do. Your boy is getting bigger by the minute, and more and more like his dad. you would be so so proud of him, that I know for sure. I was always told this would get easier, you not been around any more...well I have to say NO it bloody doesn't, still as raw today as it was on 16/04/07. Im sure you will be looking down thinking sis Im okay, live your life, but it so difficult, Im not saying I do nothing as I do, but you are always there in my thoughts. when anything a bit odd happens I blame you, but that gives me comfort thinking you are around. I visited a spiritualist and she said you was around me all the time. I'm sure you was laughing when she said to me "Who's Neil" I could of dropped to the floor, and she said you was stood behind me, i just wish I could of seen you. Iv still not found the watch she said you was asking me to find and save for Oliver, Iv asked but no one seems to know where or what happened to it. Hopefully one day I will locate it and do as you wish. Well its the Liverpool & man u match today Bro, If you had of been with me to watch it I know you would have been shouting for the pool. Well i will go for now, Love & missing you so much, Lynn xx

Hey Bro, I know its been a while since Iv been on here, that's not to say I don't think about you daily as I do. We had your boy a couple of weeks ago, i tell you this much, you couldn't of spit any better!! Hes your double in every way, looks, attitude, cheek and that cheeky lovable smile. I'm so proud of him and I know you would be. Your birthday came, yet again the naf present of flowers for you...how rubbish, flowers for my Bro... I miss you so much Neil, Iv no one to ring when I dont know how to do something technical, although I must say I think you are helping me as I seem to get on with it then think how the hell did I do that. Im sure you are looking down at me thinking Sis what on earth are you trying to do! I do know one thing for sure you are always near me, that's how it feels anyhow. Until we meet again Bro, love always Lynn

missin you soo much uncle!! :( crt belive your not here and im drivin about.. think u have make me to be like you! i know ur always with me! always see that star what is shinning brighter than the rest and i know u will always be watching down on me making sure ur little niece is doin well :) keep thinkin if u was still here we would be racing lol.. see gettin me into bad habbits! your little boy is growing up fast and getting a little bugga! but u will be laffing at him and thinking yh thats my boy! ur big sis had a graduation well i would have laffed loads if u would have seen what she had on lol.. and thought yeah lynn u look silly :) bet your proud of us all :) keep thinking every day over and over again why did god take u???? u didnt deserve to go! not yet! hope your looking after my little man up there cart belive chester has actully gone :( best keep him safe :) miss you a hell of a lot neil u mean the world to me i know i neva got t tell that or how much i love you but i hope u knew how much!! keep shining and looking down on us all love you and MISS YOU SO MUCH!!! i just want one wish and for you t be back here! would make my day!!! :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx <3 <3

sorry havent wrote on here uncle but i still think about you soo much!! you mean everything to me and to know that i will never see your smiling face again hurts me more!! feels like yesterday when i came home from school and got told the news! i thought u was going to be ok! just wish that was the case and could see you for you to fix all my problems LOL! but guess not have to ask grandad now! think of you so much uncle! well guess your looking over us, yes i passed my theory and thanks i bet you helped me! :) i needed some bloody help lol! really cart belive its been 3 years since the day god took you just wish he could have waited a bit longer so i could say goodbye properly or have a few more memories with you :) still got those memories we had and will never forget those!! well uncle i hope u save me a space next to you!! if not there will be trouble lol.. miss you soo much and i love you lots! yes i never told you that but i do!!! you never know what u have got till its gone!!! and now u have gone i do know i love you so muchh!!! my uncle who was always there for me and did anything for me has gone :( love Natalie ? ? ? ? ? BIG HUG AND KISS!!!

just been textin your lynn all day still wondering why what and how just like your lynn does why couldn't it have been different i get a sunken sick feeling everytime i have to have a day of sick or go to one of olivers school plays or even parents evening knowing ya should be their too especially to hear the outcome of oliver like to entertain i mean come on she says laughing inside where did he get that from hey yeah you can laugh cos he may as well be your identical twin i hate this shit why cant i just pick up the phone or greet ya at the door why cant we get one last chance dont even know what to say stuck for words yeah go on laugh again stuck for words me your lynn just reminded me of the times we had too and i feel sick to my stomach so less about this hey all i do want to say is i bring our son up the very best i can and will never and i mean never ever let him forget about you just try and make it so he has a normal life i cant visit ya their or even go back to the scene not strong enough to deal with it i will one day but for now it is a balloon always sent your way a rose bush in mums garden and trinkets left by oliver and a thousand or millions of memories that will never ever be forgotten nor will i ever let them i hope your looking after yourself young man we love you and even though ya never met oliver little bro he knows all about you too oliver makes sure of it i know everyone always mentions ya whether it be mum dad our gary your son of course and me but even to my aunt cath who will always say to this day no one can ever replace ya top lad x x x x

Bro, I cant believe its now 3 years since that sad sad morning. The days are passing so quickly but the pain remains the same. I'm sure it always will do. I think of you daily and often shed a tear, hey we had that bond! Yeah I know we sometimes fell out but that's natural for Brother & Sister, dosnt mean we didnt love each other. Your little man is growing quick, he's well fantastic and I love him to bits. I'm taking him for swimming lessons soon, that should be fun!! He does sometimes mention you, and he see's your pictures and he says "that's my daddy that's gone to Heaven". I know you would be so so proud of him as you always was. He's got your cheeky smile to, so gets away with everything. I would'nt have it any other way. Im still looking for those answers bro, I need reasons for why you were taken. The road was quite, no sharp bends, you knew it like the back of your hand...so why?? I know there's something that caused that tragic accident, I just know there is. I will never give up on this. Love and missing you so much Neil. Lynn xx

Hi Bro, well your little boy had started his new school and loves it!! I have him as much as i can, hes so much like you bro its uncanny. He does mention you, Im sure he will never forget, who could forget you??!! NEVER!!! Well your little niece is sson to be 18...WOW, no i cant believe it either, shes so grown up now and adores & misses you so so much. She is so very proud of you and our Oliver. She got a tattoo with your name on it in your memory, its lovely. She says iy hurt like hell bit was well worth it, she shows it off when she can. I miss you bro, I try not to cry when people around, but often do when I start to think about you, most days to be honest, but Im sure that will never change. Not sure if I want it to. Im sure your out there thinking,Aw sis, dont cry!! Its not all tears, i smile about you too, who couldnt eh!! Christmas has been and gone, just another day. Dad not doing to good, so worried about him now, mum n dad at your grave a lot of the time, they keep it really nice for you. You would be proud. Well bro time for me to put kekkle on, wish i was making you a brew and some cheese on toast!! Cheese with anything really, Our Oliver just the same, he loves cheese! Love and missing you Neil, love your big sis Lynn xxxx

Hi Bro, I really wish I could be wishing a Merry Christmas face to face, but that aint gonna happen! The pain I feel never seems to get any easier. i think of you every day, one way or another. I had you little man tuesday, wow he's so much like you it's untrue. You would be so so proud of him, as i am. I adore that little lad (and he knows it!!)I will be here for him as you would be bro, I can promise you that. Its Christmas day and I am missing you so much, the tears keep falling. I have Dick & Natalie who are my world, but not having you here is hell. If only hey!!! What ever it is you are doing up there, enjoy your day. Think of me and rest of family, but most of all keep that smile on your face. Love & Missing you Bro, Lynn xx

Hey Bro " Happy Birthday" not so happy here but Iv done what I set out to do, buy you flowers and hand made you a card (not east finding the just so birthday card anymore). Its gonna hurt like hell today when I visit your grave. mum n dad take good care of it and keep it looking loved and tidy. We should of been out celebrating your 34th Birthday today bro not buying you bloody flowers! people still keep saying, "Lynn it will ease with time" what a load of rubbish, I didnt think on that monday morning I could hurt anymore, but I do, as each day passes I feel the loss more. What ever your doing today Bro have a fab time and I will be thinking of you as always xxxx

Hey Bro, Sat here bloody crying again! It coming up to your birthday soon, instead of looking for a deft crazy pressie Im looking for something....well I dont know what im looking for. i miss you so much neil, iv been having our Oliver each Tuesday for last few weeks, you would be so PROUD of him. im sure you are looking down on him. He starts year 1 at school soon, bless him. he melts my heart as he would yours. i was so proud last week, a lady i know said how much he looked like me! Life isnt the same without you here, no phone call saying will ya, can ya. i miss that. no one to ring when i get stuck with technical stuff, i have to sort it myself, But i do. im sure you must be helping me!!! Love ya Bro xxx

neil it is 2 years my god time flys and i am as wounded today as i was the very day it happened driving to work this morning i went over everything that happened then i pulled up at my mums in the car and paused it was the same time as it was on that morning 2years ago when the police were waiting to rip my and oliver and everyones for that matter world appart things dont get any better other than your little man gets more like you each day everything is at a thousand mile an hour yeah go on laugh cos if i didnt i would be sat doing exactly what i am sat doing now crying my bloody eyes out i will ask you again but why and why is it so damn sore. oliver was only talking about you the other day saying he wanted to kiss and cuddle ya before you went to heaven and i told him no matter what the hugs you gave each other were enough to last a life time it is always so sad and the little twinkling in his eyes just like the ones you had when i was mad at ya make me melt and i have to be so strong not to cry and get upset when i am telling him well just so ya know we did not come today as i have said before too sore to face but instead he spent the day with me sorting out stuff for his horse and to top it all he been a nightmare all day and as cheeky as ever so stop laughing if you put him up to this.......... god i pray that i could just borrow you for one day to see that smile and laugh like we used to as much as we used to normally when talking about oliver.... love and miss ya you!!!! ps mum and dad still wont celebrate their wedding anniversary cos of this day and they laugh cos when dad had heartattack on your birthday you laughed yeah laughing again promised you pay him back and boy oh boy did you do that you bugar. x x x just a little note to you from oliver to tell you that you are still that shining star and always will be never will you be forgotten but i know you will be glad to see i am well daddy and taken care of and love spending time wi aunt lynn she very special to me and reminds me a lot like you daddy two peas in a pod....... wish you were here for a kiss and love and i wish i could understand why but when i get a bit older maybe then things may become more clear i am thinking about been a police officer or a vet at the minute but as ya might be aware i change my mind daily think i get that from you daddy always something to plan and ya taught mummy well cos she just the same rest up keep me safe and keep smiling love you always x x x x x x x x

Cant believe it now 2 years since you were taken from us bro. It still hurts as much as the ay you went. we have been to the scene & your grave today, god that hurt. I had our Oliver yesterday, you would be so proud of your little boy, he is you through n through - Cheeky!!!(but has the smile to melt your heart) I know iv not visited this site for a while but that dosnt mean i dont think about you every minute of every day, cos i do. I do miss you so much Bro n just want you back here where you should be, calling for a cuppa n a cheese sarnie. Love n miss ya Bro Lynn xx

uncle dont worry i havnt forgot about you even tho i havnt wrote on here for ages but that dunt mean im not thinking about you! because i am every single minute of the day there is never a day when i have not thought about you uncle! new year new start and yeah you should be here doing all the crazy things you used to do when you was with us all i miss the good times we had can remeber when i stoped at your when you was on call and oliver was kickin the ball in the room and you went mad with him n you sent him to his room and he look out of door and was laffing at you and all you could do was smile and laff back because you was soo proud with what you had in your life. he is the image of you and its like seeing you on are olivers face when we see him and im soo proud of you and are oliver because no matter what he will always be your boy!! and he will always be daddys boy!! your are really missed neil! just want you back thats all i wish for and im gunna keep wishing till that day comes when i can see my uncle neil again!! rest in peace till that day comes neil i promis i will try my best and will never give up try and wishing for you to be back with your family were you belong! love youuu sooooo blooddy much neil!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Foreva in my heart!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

So many thoughts, in my head. So many things, left unsaid. You left that day, without a glance. Never knowing God, wasn't giving you a second chance. What was in your head, the last moments you had. I hope you though happy thoughts, and not sad. No one can evertake your place. Your image in my heartwill never erase. As you smile one me from up above. My mind is still sadbut my heart is filled with love. I love you dear uncle you meant the world to me. I'll always make you proud of me you will see. love you soo much uncle, forever in my heart. ♥

he was the best mate i eva had he wa always there wen down or in trouble he was 1 of a kind an can neva be replased missin you pal. R.I.P ya pal gaz summers

well uncle to be honest i really cart stop thinkin about you! i have been sat in my room and all that was in my head was you and how much i trully miss you neil. all ii want is for you to be back with us. eveything hasnt been the same since god took you from us but ou have been left in are hearts but that isnt enough we all want you back with us for the times we have missed not havin you around. i really hope your proud of your little boy because i am on how he looks and is like you neil. its so hard getting up each day and thinking or knowing that you are not goin to be here or not goin to be seeing you but knowing that your going to be where you are until we meet again. its going to happen i am posative it will uncle ii really am.all ii want is for god to give me back my uncle who ii love and miss SOOO MUCH. it really is hard these days with you gone and never by my side but i know half of me went with you and half of you is with me when you went and all i can remeber are the good memorise we have had not alot but we should of had a lot more in your time. but we didnt know that god was going to call you back :( miss youu soo much uncle r.i.p miss you and love you so much words cart explain how much i do love you uncle. xxx

well uncle i hope u had a good birthday where ever you are but we could have gave you a even better one!!! it still aint sunk in properly that you have gone it really feels like a dream to me and when i wake up you will be there with your cheesy grin but the again i think that you have really gone. you was more than a uncle to me neil..was like a best friend to me and when god called your name a part of me went with you aswell. i can still remember the day when i got told about the awfull day you was taken from us all and i sit and think tha you shoudnt have gone, you had all your life to live and to watch your son grow up and look like you more and more each day. hope your watchin over him and i hope u are really proud of him :) rest.in.peace. uncle till we meet again. AND WE WILL DO :) love youu uncle xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx♥♥♥

Hey bro, would of been your 33rd today. I never thought I would be buying you bloody memorial flowers. I should be looking for silly gifts as i used to - large elastic band to use as a hands free!!! That was you to a T!!! But instead I have to look for the right thing and find the right words, this is the hardest thing in the world. i miss you so much bro. I do hope where ever you are you are having a great time, looking down on us knowing we miss you and think of you daily. My life has changed so much since you were taken away, I think different know, You have mase me a stronger person. Love & miss you Neil Lynn xxx

well uncle its your birthday and its a real shame that your not with us to celebrate it i really miss you and ii only want you back with your family it shoudnt be you what has gone its true god only takes the best and loved ones first its really hard when its your birthday or christmas dunno what to get you or say, all ii want is to see your smiling face while you see your son. he is getting more like you everyday. and when he smile it is like what you have. i just want one wish and i want to see your face again. rest in peace till we meet again. always in my heart.. love you *&&* miss you soo much. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Well Bro. its coming up to your 33rd birthday. A day we should be celebrating and having fun but instead Im looking for flowers to lay at the scene you left us and the your final resting place. This is so bloody hard!! How can I give my brother the present he deserves when he's no longer around?? It cuts like a knife every day bro, but one day we will be reunited. Love & miss ya bro Lynn XXXX

You're more to me than my uncle You are also my best friend You're always there for me For an ear or a shoulder to lend You're the first to hear of my joys It's you I go to if I've had a bad day I love you more than I have words To express myself or say

HI Bro, well I had your little boy yesterday for a while. It was great to see him. Hes the spit of you and he was asking about you, Im so proud of him as Im sure you would be. Its still not getting any easier, good days and bad. Still cant understand WHY??? Never will!!! I think of you EVERY DAY and when things go wrong i often blame you. Sometimes I smile. Was told on sunday I look the double of you, this is now something Im proud of, thinking your still around whilst ever I am, but then again our Oliver will take over from me. I do love & miss you so much Bro xxx

just the average family we didnt ask for more then life was changed completely with that knock upon our door this awful thing had happened and none of us knew why you were never coming back again and we didnt say goodbye our world just fell to pieces we cried in disbelief we had to stick together to overcome our grief we'll never understand it it all seems so unfair we wish we'd hear that knock again and see you standing there all our love mam and dad xxxx

Well Uncle ii really dont know what to say... it is still a shock that you are not with us, really miss yoou uncle. i always think you are goin to come down street and run into house and say god aint you put kettle on yet but in your words kekkle LOL you didnt half make me laff but looks like the lafter has brought sadness and tears to me. i still think of all the good times we had through the past years but its not GOOD enough... all i ever want is for you to be back with us all again. i only want one wish just so i could see your face again and the smile you always had on it which made all us happy because you was. your son is getting more like you and he always talks about you ya know. always makes me smile because he knows who his daddy is an you are going to be reuntied one of these days.. really miss you uncle really want to see yoou again... keep looking down to know that you are still with us. its hard aswell not been able to go to ur grave as much as i would like to because i know that thats were all my memories come back because i know thats were i think of you most but i dont like going there because i know thats were you are always going to be when you should be on earth with us living rest of your life.. love yoouu sooo much always going to be in my heart till the day we meet again love yooou soooo bloddy much uncle.... i know u think i am bein soppy when u read it but yes i am and i dont care because i want u to know how much u are truly missed... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Bro, it dosnt get any easier, its still hurts as much now as the day you were taken away from us. It breaks my heart to visit your grave, i wish i could visit more often but it hurts to much. You are never out of my thoughts and never will be. The bond we had has been broken but i know we will have that bond again one day. Oliver is a credit to you, he talks about you and I just smile at him, Bless him. I would give every thing just to have you back here with us but I know thats not possible. Its 14 months since that dreadful day that my heart was broken and apart of me was taken away and will never be replaced. Love & Missing you so very much Neil, Your big sis Lynn xxxx

UNCLE NEIL. MISS YOU SOOO MUCH ALWAYS IN MY HEART.... GOD LOOKED AROUND HIS GARDEN AND SAW AN EMPTY SPACE THEN HE LOOKED DOWN HERE ON EARTH AND SAW YOUR LOVING FACE HE PUT HIS ARMS AROUND YOU AND LIFTED YOU TO REST HIS GARDEN MUST BE BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE HE ONLY PICKS THE BEST, A MILLION TIMES WE'LL MISS YOU A MILLION TIMES WE'LL CRY IF LOVE COULD'VE SAVED YOU, YOU NEVER WOULD'VE DIED IN LIFE WE LOVED YOU DEARLY IN DEATH WE LOVE YOU STILL IN OUR HEARTS YOU HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE NO ONE COULD EVER FILL, IT BROKE OUR HEARTS TO LOSE YOU BUT YOU DID NOT GO ALONE FOR PART OF US WENT WITH YOU THE DAY GOD TOOK YOU HOME WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU UNCLE NEIL ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ REST.IN.PEACE... ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

its been a year since you were taken from us son theres still no reason why it hurts us all so deply the pain we can not discribe one day we will be together again not sure when that will be untill then we will always love youand in our memorys you'll always stay love and miss you always mam and dad xxxx xxx xx x

thinking of you DADDY missing you more and more each day i wish you could just come back even if it was for one more day, i know you will be proud of me as i am so much like you in every way i know that sometimes annoys mummy when i am such a little buggar but i like it that way, sleep tight daddy big kisses always your number 1 and only son oliver x

Well Bro I cant believe its a year since you were taken away from us. It still feel the same as i did on the 16/4/07. I woke and looked at the clock at 6.20am and instantly thought of you at flanshaw lane on that monday morning 12 months ago, you will never know how much i just wish i could of been there with you just so you wasnt on your own. I miss you so much Bro. Im sure i cant cry any more tears but i know that i will, i will never accept what has happened but im told i will learn to live with it. Up to now thats not true. Love & missing you Lynn your big sis xxx

daddy why is it so so hard i question mummy, auntie lynn grandma even the out siders and not one person can answer me and it is so hard.... love and miss ya daddy and always will your no 1 and only son oliver david watson x

nearly a year gone and just as i thought it gets no easier your son asks all the bloody questions i only wish i had answers for and he is so inquisitive questions questions well that is all you ever did bless ya and why is it neil every time i tell him of which is not very often but your song always comes on as if to say oy dont get on at our boy.... i hope your taking real good care of yourself i am sure you are having them all laughing up their we love and miss ya from davina, oliver and the family take care x x x

Uncle Neil..♥ Will always remeber the times we have had and shared together.... dunt know what i am gonna do with out you..., it has been nearly a year with out you beside me in my life... i relly miss you if i had just one wish i would wish for you to be back in my whole life again..... Since u have left my side my heart just torn apart and nothing has been the same with out you in it.... miss yooou and love you loads uncle... R.I.P

We know you will walk beside us, and when our lives our through, I pray that god will take our hands and lead us straight to you. Miss you always. Mum And Dad xxxxxxx

Well Bro its nearly a year to when you left us and still the pain dos'nt ease. Think about you daily, miss you like crazy. will never accept what has happened, the pain is to much. We will be reunited one day, that i know. Im no longer scared of whats on the other side as i know your there for me. Im sure you do visit me, things that happen. I blame you anyhow (nothing changes there then!!)Miss you Bro xx

to neil, every time we look around ya always their the good times we had money could not buy. the times we had hey? the street light you made with dave still shines bright, the table you put together wrong remain(bodged) the same for us in the garden, the handy work and mischief you and dave got up to the plumbing the electric the cars was their anything you could not do??? you learnt to ride your motorcycle in the bottom of the garden god you was so clumsy ha, then you taught your son who followed in his daddys steps and was just as clumsy only one speed and it was full on you little monkeys... the bbq's and partys we had you always was the party animal and the star of the party no matter who met you they always went home loving you... we never did see eye to eye did we been virgo's too much alike but we always managed to sort through it and ya knew where to come if ya needed us the one thing that we did share and agree on was our proud grandson you both gave to us your little man oliver the laughs we had we were so proud to have known you and have you as a son in law r.i.p love always and miss you carol and dave x x x

sadly taken away, what a great guy "shit aint it" i ask myself the same thing day after day. waking up to the little neil i see every day you still go on but it still gets no easier. the years we had together the fun and the happiness and the bad times are all we have left but its the memories that will stay with us just as the little fella we are still holding on to will!!! ya always asked about and remembered every day.... oliver says my daddy used to be lightning mcqueen and the star he chooses to tell every one is always the brightest in the sky what more can we say, rest in piece love always neil davina x x x daddy, always remembered and always missed you were my world and my everything mummy tries to explain time and time again why you wont come back but i just dont understand why and probably never will... twinkle twinkle little star how i wonder how you are daddy like the biggest diamond in the sky up above me and the world so high twinkle twinkle little star x x x love ya so much daddy oliver your son x x x x

If roses grow in heaven lord pick a bunch 4 me, place them in my uncle Neil's arm's and say they are from me. Tell him that i love him and when he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him 4 a while. Because remebering him is easy, i do it every day. missing him is the heart ache, that never goes away. love you and miss you uncle always in my heart luv nataliee xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

for our wonderful son neil who was taken away from us so young and had everthing to live for we love you and miss you and always in our thoughts and always will be all our love Mam And Dad xxxx xxx xx x

Bro i wish you could be here with us, but i know thats not possible anymore. I think about you a thousand times a day and miss you so very very much. I will be by your side again one day Bro, so until then xxxx

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I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.